Clues To Self-Sabatoge
Self-sabotage can be so undermining and frustrating! We think we are on the right path, but get delayed and re-routed in other directions! Time slips away, opportunities pass, calls get returned too late, too tired, too overwhelmed, too, too, too! Excuses arrive unsolicited but arrive just the same! Where are they coming from and how can I gain back control in my life! It’s as though there is this illusive internal entity that tries to postpone and negate our efforts! It’s as though you can see, hear, and feel it impose negative feelings towards accomplishment and follow through…..it almost seems palpable!
These are a few of the most common voices we need to silence, ….. as well as identify what they are really saying;
- Not losing weight – fear of attracting an undesirable or harmful relationship.
- Eating when you feel tired and drained – not realizing or acknowledging that you are not sufficiently grounded.
- Fear of moving outside your comfort zone – what if I can’t meet the challenge?
- What if I lose a situation (job or relationship) only to fall flat on my face with no visible financial sustenance?
- I won’t offer my artwork to a prestigious gallery – it may be thought of as inferior and not meet other’s expectations.
You may have already guessed who this secret internal entity is. You guessed it…it’s you and you need to confront it with a warrior’s determination and strength! You see, you’ve set up “secondary gain” and this you did all by yourself! Because in truth, no one else would or could since you are the “Divine Creator” of your life. The problem is that you’re not living as a divine creator and are using every “trick in the book” to evade or dismiss the opportunities!
So, if this scenario is not what you had imagined or wanted, what part of you is keeping you at bay? Now this is where things get exciting! Through using my Life Coaching and your Soul Realignment information, you can start putting yourself in the driver’s seat and move forward in the direction of your dreams! No one else will drive you there and it is your destination and no one else’s!
My next Bog entitled, Conquering Self-Sabotage, talks about how you can overcome these burdensome obstacles and reach the finality of your goals through Soul Realignment and Life Coaching!
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